But here’s where the film pulls its smartest trick.
You’d be half right. There is cringe. But there’s also a surprising amount of heart. the 40 year-old virgin
The loudest, “manliest” guys in the room—Paul Rudd, Seth Rogen, and Romany Malco—are all revealed to be emotional disasters. They’ve had plenty of sex, and they’re absolutely miserable. One is trapped in a dead-end relationship. One is terrified of commitment. One uses empty hookups to avoid feeling anything at all. But here’s where the film pulls its smartest trick
And Andy almost ruins it because he’s still trapped by the number “40.” Spoiler (for a 20-year-old movie): Andy and Trisha end up together. But the famous “I’m a virgin” confession scene is devastating in the best way. Andy doesn’t deliver it as a punchline. He delivers it as a scared, vulnerable human being. And Trisha’s response—“So?”—is one of the kindest lines in comedy history. But there’s also a surprising amount of heart
The movie’s genius move is the introduction of Trisha (Catherine Keener). She’s not a supermodel. She’s a real, warm, slightly sarcastic woman who runs an online resale store. She has an ex-husband and a daughter. She’s not a fantasy; she’s a person.