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Open with her energy, her smile, or the book she’s reading. Treat her like a person she actually is, not a category you’re checking off. The Second Rule: Own Your Preference (Without Being a Jerk) Here is the tightrope. You want to show you are attracted to her size without making it weird.

You must break the "secret lover" frame immediately.

That’s not game. That’s garbage.

“Look, I don't do secret dating. If we hit it off, I want to take you to my favorite taco spot on a Tuesday night where my friends will see us. You cool with that?”

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Congrats. You just reduced her to a grocery list.

The audacity to walk up to a woman who society told to be quiet. The audacity to look her in the eye in a room full of judgment. The audacity to say, “I see you, and I want to know more.” Open with her energy, her smile, or the book she’s reading

Better yet? Low pressure. High comfort. This is where you build the emotional safety net required for the physical attraction to flourish. The Fourth Rule: Handle The "Friend Zone" Fear Here is a secret the skinny PUAs won't tell you. Many BBW are terrified you are just being nice because you feel sorry for them, or worse, that you want a secret fling.

Stop Shrinking: The BBW Pickup Version Playbook for Real Connections Posted by: Coach Mike "The Realist" You want to show you are attracted to

Stop using the fat-phobic playbook. Throw away the cheap compliments. Be bold. Be warm. Be real.

Pick a spot with booths or low couches . A low, soft couch allows for the "comfort touch"—a hand on the knee, a shoulder brush—without the awkwardness of a high-top table.